Why

Why do sth can affect our life especially our mood? I'm confused. Why boy looked more important than our family? Why we can say that we love our boyf/girlf everyday, but looked so hard to say "i love u" with our family or maybe friends? I'm confused.

This is true, but it happens to almost all the people in the world. Knowing our boy/girl friends is 'just now'. But we've met our family since we were child. Hmm... i'm just thinking. Not bcs i don't love my boyfie anymore, or thinking he's not important because i lv him so much, but why? Fighting with our boy/girlfriends is a big deal and it absolutely destroys our mood so bad. Don't u think it makes ur life harder? Hahaha. But, lil' fights or lil' problems in a relationship are exceptionally ordinary. Sometimes....it's fun. But, when we have a problem with our boy/girlfriends, it's really really affecting our attitude to our family. Did u realize that? When ur boyfie makes u feel bad, u'll get badmood, u'll annoyed and angry with everyone arround you, and it's not good. Imagine if we were in their position. What do u feel? They don't know anything, but they get the anger from us. Is that fair? I think, it's unfair. I still asking "why". I know it was bad, but i did it.

When we were badmood, maybe we would be unpolite, saying the sarcastic words and make them feel bad too. Logically, our family should be more important then our boy/girlfriends. But in fact, they are same, or maybe your boy/girlfriend is more important than family, even anything?n And i repeat, why looked so hard to say "i love u" to our family and friends? whether is it genetics innate? Prestige. Is that the reason? I'm still not sure with that. Is there any another reason? Or, is it a human nature? Maybe...

That's all from me
You should care with what i wrote (but if you don't care, it's not a bog deal for me)


Warm regards,

Fizafara